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He is very, very stubborn.<br>
Well, I am here to tell you that that is absolutely not the case, and I
am wondering why you are considering marrying this man.<br>
I strongly believe it is better to not cover up abuse.<br>
On the contrary, your choice to stay with him at this point in time
reflects your love for him and commitment to your marriage. I wonder if
other Christian couples have gone through this. They have never had a
conversation, and he made a comment that he would not come to the
wedding.<br>
He is a humble person, but I feel a wall now between us so thick I have
no clue how to tear it down. I no longer trust him.<br>
He also is not going to get that help as long as he doesn't see the need
for it and is in denial about his problem. If you were looking for a
more squared off, balanced, and bug filled beta version of Star wars
meets childrens television work shop come and get it! Leaning on God in
this situation can bring much comfort and strength, and God can aid and
heal your marriage relationship. He even started therapy.<br>
On the contrary, your choice to stay with him at this point in time
reflects your love for him and commitment to your marriage. What you can
do is nudge him along and let him know that it's a very serious issue to
you and it sounds like you have. So, feel free to submit a question for
review.<br>
And, some people deal with it much better then others. Online counseling
can work well for the individual component of the therapy. You could
also work on ways you can incorporate some type of group component or
other viable alternative into your treatment so you can get the best of
what that offers too.<br>
Which saves me the time and effort of making links to them. I feel this
is disrespectful to my fiance.<br>
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